Public Speaking

Hello, everyone!

Today’s topic is public speaking. I just recently had to give one in my college Speech class and it was the most horrific experience of my college career.

Here’s how it went down…

The first thing I had to do was find a relateable topic I could inform people. Trying to keep it scholarly, professional, and sweet I picked a topic I knew everyone in the class had dealt with; Stress and Anxiety. Seemed like a good enough idea, right?

I had it all planned out! I had chocolate (destressor), a vague powerpoint (which I thought I could only put vague things not my actual speech like most other people),flashcards and a neat and tidy outline. I thought I was going to do great! I mean, I have acted on a camera before, why not be able to inform my peers?


(I even an included a colorful mental break down Brittany picture so emphasize how bad stress can get if you don’t learn to cope!)

Well, when the night of the speech came around my stress and anxiety levels were through the ROOF. I was to the point of tears I was so terrified. Everyone in the class did phenomenal, you couldn’t even tell they were nervous! Well, my turn came up and well if you asked my classmates who did the worst, I am sure the unanimous decision would have been me.

I approached the podium, shaking like a Chihuahua. I fumbled typing in Prezi and my email address. The thing was on so everyone saw all my mistakes. When I got up to stand and face them all, I went blank. Everything I had practiced was gone. I had no choice BUT to look at the outline (fuck my flashcards!) and it was horrible. I got a laugh at Brittany Spears but I know I did horrible overall. When I got home I panicked, cried, and yelled at my fiance. He was kind and understanding (I’m a lucky lady) but I hit a pretty low point that night. I’m really not good with failure.

So, what I’m getting at is has anyone had to deal with public speaking? What tips do you have like a panicking lady like myself? Or do you have an embarrassing speech story? Post your tips or stories below!

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Selfie Sunday and Birthday Parties

Hello, everyone!

The whole three of you, haha!

I hope you all have been as fabulous as I have felt these last few days. Not sure if it’s the weather or the shift in the planets, I don’t know but I am not complaining! It could also be because I fixed my hair and have it back to its rightful color of a fiery red! Here is my #SelfieSunday!


Post yours in the comments! Let’s show off our hot-mom-ness (Yes, that’s a thing now, Google it!)

 Anyway, moms, I need to get this blog up and running and I want it to be a talkative one so I need some feedback! Let’s talk birthday parties.

I’m sure the words send shivers down your spines as all mothers know how stressful those things can be to plan! I have only had to plan one so far and it was extremely stressful and I would have rather just not. But that’s not an option, not when you’re an awesome hot mom and you want your child to have nothing but the best, right? Right!

On Friday, my daughter and I went to her little boyfriend’s second birthday party at Chuckie Cheese and it was a blast! It had me heavily considering going there for my daughter’s second birthday in June. However, before I really started planning I wanted some opinions, so I thought, “why not blog about it?”

So, here we are! 

Well, experienced moms (or not, I just wanna hear some feedback!), I would like to ask YOU for your opinion on how to throw a great birthday party for a two year old? What is the best place to throw a party? Is it better to go to a place like Chuckie Cheese and Incredible Pizza or at a park or pool? I’m sure it depends on the weather but what is your preference?


Here is a picture from our Friday night! terrible twos

Gotta love them terrible twos, right?!

Just Listen

Hello, all!

Or more specifically; maybe one person,

I truthfully do not know where to begin with this thing. I have read articles and googled to my fingers depression but I still don’t have a clue on how I am supposed to “create a successful blog”. Especially a blog for the under-appreciated glory that is hot moms! (Which by the way, that means every momma working her ASS off on a daily!) So, basically…

I’m just going to dive right on in.

I made this blog over a week ago; a name, a theme, a logo, and a dream.

My dream is to just quite simply be heard. 

I’m sure I’m not the only mom, let alone person, that feels this way, right? To be more specific – I’m not the only one that feels ignored, stepped on, used, and quite frankly disrespected, right? I know there are other people, like me, that feel their voice just isn’t loud enough and so we get spoken over… though we try do everything for people, it just isn’t truly noticed. The act of kindness just isn’t getting reciprocated. People can’t even just say, “thank you“…

It really feels like no one follows that Golden Rule that I thought would have been hammered into our heads since adolescence?


However, I also know I can’t be the only one to look past these difficulties and still follow my dreams. I will continue to sing my truths even though no one listens. I will still dance with a grace because I have fallen and gotten back up. I will still try even if others don’t return it. I will still love because love is really all you need to survive this crazy, hateful world.

So, I guess that’s kind of why I am making this blog. To spread love, positivism, my dreams, my crazy life, and hopefully I can relate with some people… if I can make someone, just one person smile, then I am not wasting my time.

So, keep strong mommas and people and know that there are still people that appreciate you, even if it’s in ways you can’t see at first. Some people may just surprise you.

That child (you know, that miracle you made happen), you know they love and appreciate you! Even if they can be brats.😉


Goodnight, everyone!

Know you are loved and HOT moms!